The Urgent Need for Faith Instructors in the Home: Navigating the Post-Modern Era – (1)

By Prof. Oyewole Sarumi

In the ever-evolving landscape of the 21st century, the family dynamic and societal norms have undergone significant transformation. One of the most profound changes is the shift to a post-modern world, which presents unique challenges to parents, educators, and communities striving to nurture children with values that will stand the test of time. The post-modern era, marked by a rejection of absolute truths and an emphasis on relativism, calls for an urgent need to return to strong, biblical instruction within the home. As we grapple with these changes, the role of “faith instructors” — particularly in the home — has never been more crucial.

In this article, we will explore the nature of the post-modern world, the challenges faced by today’s generation (especially Gen Z), the role of parents and guardians as faith instructors, and how to build a framework for effective biblical instruction at home.

Understanding the Post-Modern Era and its Challenges

The post-modern era is a cultural, intellectual, and philosophical period that emerged in the mid-20th century. Unlike the modern era, which emphasized reason, science, and a belief in objective truth, the post-modern mindset is characterized by skepticism toward grand narratives, relativism, and the rejection of absolute truths.

In this era, truth is often seen as subjective; what is true for one person may not necessarily be true for another. Morality becomes fluid, and faith is frequently relegated to a private matter with no universal standard. This relativism undermines the foundational truths that many Christian parents and educators have historically instilled in their children. The consequences of this shift are far-reaching, particularly in terms of how children are raised and what they are taught about the world and their place in it.

The Challenge of the Gen Z

As we look at the younger generation, particularly Gen Z (born roughly between 1997 and 2012), we see a generation deeply shaped by the internet, social media, and a world of constant connectivity. This digital age has created unprecedented access to information — both accurate and misleading. Gen Z is exposed to a multitude of worldviews and ideologies, often leading to confusion and insecurity about who they are, what they believe, and where they belong.

In this world of constant noise and distractions, the voices that matter most — those of parents, faith instructors, and spiritual leaders — often get drowned out. The pressure to conform to societal standards, the allure of secular philosophies, and the overwhelming pull of instant gratification make it difficult for young people to develop a solid and unshakeable faith.

Moreover, Gen Z faces emotional challenges that earlier generations didn’t experience on such a scale, including high levels of anxiety, depression, and social isolation. According to a report by the American Psychological Association, Gen Z ranks among the most stressed generations in history. The consequences of this stress, combined with a lack of solid spiritual foundations, leave many vulnerable to the teachings and ideologies of the world, which often stand in direct opposition to the truth of God’s word.

The Role of Faith Instructors in the Home

In the face of these challenges, the need for faith instructors in the home has never been more urgent. The Bible consistently emphasizes the importance of the home as the primary environment for nurturing faith and spiritual growth. The first and foremost “faith instructors” in any child’s life are the parents. Ephesians 6:4 reminds fathers (and mothers) to “bring them [children] up in the training and instruction of the Lord.” This verse highlights the biblical mandate for parents to provide spiritual guidance and moral instruction within the home.

Deuteronomy 6:6-7 also emphasizes the importance of teaching children about God’s commandments, stating, “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” This passage shows that faith instruction is not limited to formal settings like Sunday schools or church services but should permeate every aspect of family life. Parents are encouraged to weave faith and biblical teachings into the everyday activities of life.

Faith instructors in the home are not limited to just parents; they can also include grandparents, guardians, and mentors within the church community. In fact, the Bible is filled with examples of individuals who served as mentors or spiritual guides to younger generations. Think of the relationship between Naomi and Ruth, or Paul and Timothy. These examples underscore the importance of intergenerational relationships in fostering spiritual growth.

Building a Framework for Effective Instruction at Home

So, how can we, as parents and faith instructors, create an environment at home where children are equipped to face the challenges of the post-modern world with a strong and unwavering faith? Here are some practical steps:

1. Create a Christ-Centered Home Environment
   The foundation of any strong faith instruction starts with the home environment. A Christ-centered home is one where biblical principles are practiced daily, from how family members treat one another to how decisions are made. This environment helps children see that their faith is not just something that is practiced on Sundays but is integrated into every part of life. Key actions:

• Establish regular family prayer times.
• Read and discuss the Bible together.
• Model Christian values in interactions and decisions.

1. Teach Biblical Truths and Sound Doctrine
   In a world where relativism reigns, teaching children the absolute truths of God’s word is vital. Instead of simply teaching what is “popular” or “trendy,” faith instructors must ground children in sound biblical doctrine. This includes teaching children about God’s love, salvation through Jesus Christ, the authority of the Bible, and the call to live a life of holiness and service. Key actions:
   Use age-appropriate Bible stories and lessons to communicate foundational truths.

• Focus on the Gospel message, emphasizing both grace and responsibility.
• Discuss difficult topics like sin, forgiveness, and redemption.

1. Equip Children to Think Critically About the World
   One of the greatest challenges of the post-modern era is the barrage of conflicting worldviews that children are exposed to. Teaching children how to discern between truth and error is crucial. Faith instructors should not shy away from difficult questions or controversial topics but should engage children in discussions that allow them to think critically about the world through a biblical lens. Key actions:

• Encourage questions and discussions about faith, culture, and morality.
• Teach children how to analyze media, entertainment, and societal trends with a discerning eye.
• Equip them with tools for defending their faith (apologetics) in an increasingly hostile world.

1. Be a Model of Consistency and Integrity Children learn not only from what they are taught but also from what they see. Faith instructors must model the values they teach. Integrity, humility, forgiveness, and love must be consistently demonstrated in both private and public life. When children see their faith instructors living out what they preach, they are more likely to internalize those values. Key actions:

• Practice what you preach — demonstrate Christ-like love, patience, and kindness.
• Admit mistakes and seek reconciliation when necessary.
• Set a positive example in your actions, not just words.

Recommendations for Parents and Faith Instructors

1. Engage in Continuous Spiritual Growth
   Faith instructors themselves must prioritize their own spiritual growth. Consistent Bible study, prayer, and fellowship are essential for equipping parents and mentors to lead their children well.
2. Create Strong Church and Community Connections
   Faith instructors should build strong relationships with their church communities and other Christian families. Collaboration and support from fellow believers are invaluable in the shared mission of raising spiritually healthy children.
3. Seek Resources for Effective Parenting and Faith Instruction Many resources are available to help parents and faith instructors better teach biblical principles to children. Books, online courses, and workshops can provide helpful insights and tools for addressing the challenges of parenting in a post-modern world.

Conclusion

The post-modern era presents a unique set of challenges for parents and faith instructors. The erosion of absolute truths and the rise of relativism make it more difficult than ever to raise children who are firmly rooted in biblical faith. However, the responsibility for faith instruction in the home remains as essential as ever. By creating Christ-centered homes, teaching sound biblical truths, engaging in critical thinking, and modeling Christian values, parents and faith instructors can effectively equip the next generation to navigate the complexities of life with unwavering faith.

The need for faith instructors in the home is urgent, as the world grows increasingly hostile to biblical values. However, with commitment, wisdom, and God’s guidance, we can raise children who are not only equipped to face the challenges of the post-modern world but also to stand firm in the truth of God’s word.

Let us, as parents, guardians, and mentors, rise to the task of nurturing a generation of faithful, discerning, and passionate followers of Christ. The stakes have never been higher, but with God’s help, the future of our children’s faith is in good hands.